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Post by azballerina on Jan 10, 2005 0:40:37 GMT -5
i have this friend (Rhy) who i thought trusted me. i found out from another friend (Meg) that he was going out with this one girl (Audri) that i knew he liked, and so i asked Meg why he didn't tell me, and she said that Audri wanted to break up with him because she didn't want to ruin their friendship. then, i was talking with Rhy over the internet and he mentioned that he was going through a delemma right now and i asked what it was, knowing perfectly what it was, i just wanted him to tell me so he would know that i knew. he said "i don't know if i should tell you" and im like "why?" and hes like "because i don't think you'd understand" sure i wouldn't i thought. because i do! i understand perfectly. and i kept asking Rhy why he thought i wouldn't understand. and he finially kinda blew up and said "because your not mature enough!!!" and that totally pissed me off and so i quit talking to me and he wont tell me and i found out from Meg that like everyone knew about it, except me! (well, i knew about it, but i didn't hear it from him) it made me soo mad! and i cannot see why the entire world can know from him and not me! we have been friends for like a year! what should i do?
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Post by Sydni33 on Jan 11, 2005 22:41:01 GMT -5
yea that was kinda rude of him to say that...did u do anything about it yet?
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Post by azballerina on Jan 12, 2005 19:26:11 GMT -5
well, 2 days ago he apoligized and said he was just stressed but refused to tell me. hes like "and dont ask, i'm not ready to tell you." yeah he can be rude sometimes
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Post by Sydni33 on Jan 12, 2005 19:30:12 GMT -5
ohh. well at least he apoligized.
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Post by shygurl on Jan 14, 2005 0:58:21 GMT -5
ohh. well at least he apoligized. yeah, at least. He could have been one of those guys who leave u hanging forever. I think u should let him kno that u feel kinda left out, like there's a big wall between you and him.
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Post by foreverdaydreamer on Jan 14, 2005 17:55:49 GMT -5
Wow, you sound like my friend, your problems are sort of the same. Sorry, I didn't know what to tell her either. Of course she basically told me, PLEASE FIX THIS! and stuck me with her ENTIRE problem.....
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Post by azballerina on Jan 14, 2005 20:35:04 GMT -5
ok, well.... there's been some updating in Rhys life... he said that he doesn't like Audri anymore, and i'm like what happened? and he said "nevermind" so i just stopped talking about it, i didn't wan't him mad at me again. i overheard Meg talking about Rhy one night, and (i know, i'm bad) but i eavesdropped on her conversation and evidently Rhy had followed Audri at 1:30 at night (after a church dance) and she was going 70 miles an hour and he was trying to follow her cos shes been acting really weird lately and he nearly flipped his van following her! Rhy, Meg, Me, and a whole bunch of people are really worried about her. i found out from my brother that Rhy and Audri had broken up a few days before that and shes going out with someone else, and he's *ahem* a bad person, but she's not really seeing that. i'm soo worried about Audri, and i feel really really bad for Rhy cos there's nothing he can do to change his feeling for her and he's heartbroken over her. and i feel that i made it worse cos i tried to make him tell me when i realize that he definately didn't wanna talk about it. i had no idea there was so much involved.
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Post by Sydni33 on Jan 14, 2005 21:22:14 GMT -5
that sucks...sorry about all that!!
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Post by azballerina on Jan 15, 2005 0:20:21 GMT -5
yeah it really does suck. i don't know what to say to rhy or Audri.
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Post by azballerina on Jan 20, 2005 0:59:48 GMT -5
i saw him a few days ago, nearly in tears... i think something else happened, and i don't know what it is, and i can't ask him, and Meg doesn't know either. i feel soo bad for him!!!!
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