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Post by shygurl on Jan 14, 2005 1:02:38 GMT -5
TEXT I have this male friend at school who is my reaaaaaaaaaally good friend, but other ppl tease me about liking him. it ttlly sux, and i try to ignore my friend, but he just can't seem to break our friendship without getting real hurt. Plus, my parents think he's my boyfriend (he is ttlly NOT!!!) and i cant seem to convince them that he's not. Should i dump my friendship with him or not? HELP!!!
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Post by Sydni33 on Jan 14, 2005 14:24:03 GMT -5
do u like him?
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Post by foreverdaydreamer on Jan 14, 2005 17:18:46 GMT -5
NO! Don't do that, he's your FRIEND, who cares what your parents or anyone else says!
I know, I would SO not breakup my friendship with this guy at my school if everyone suddenly decided we were going out, let them think whatever they want!
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Post by Sydni33 on Jan 14, 2005 17:38:47 GMT -5
that is exactly what i was thinking!!...i used to date a boy younger than me and everyone would make fun of me but i didnt stop likeing him because of what people say.
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Post by bluejeans88 on Jan 14, 2005 17:46:11 GMT -5
don't care what other ppl think!do whatever you think is best!
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Post by Sydni33 on Jan 14, 2005 17:55:59 GMT -5
yeahh
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Post by azballerina on Jan 14, 2005 20:39:18 GMT -5
shygurl, i would definately not break off the friendship with him. last year i had the exact same problem, and i realized that our friendship actually got stronger cos we both realized that even though we were being mocked, we still were there for eachother, and that meant alot to both of us. even though it makes you mad, just let him know that you don't want to break off the friendship just cos of a stupid rumor.
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Post by Ariel on Jan 16, 2005 19:53:44 GMT -5
Don't break it off because he's YOUR FRIEND. So what about what people think? They have nothing to do with what you should feel. And it wou'ldn't be fair to your friend. He didn't do anything.
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Post by Dolphingrl on Jan 17, 2005 11:55:55 GMT -5
They could just be jelous that you have such a good friendship with him and the person who started it actually likes him and plotting that if they could tear away your friendship then they could have him all to themself. Hope that helps
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Post by shygurl on Jan 20, 2005 16:28:13 GMT -5
i dunno. . . whenever i see him hanging out with Betty (new student) i always get so jealous and lose my head.
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Post by shygurl on Jan 20, 2005 16:29:13 GMT -5
thanx for the advice. i dont kno if hes really my friend nemore. he keeps hanging out with Betty and not with me.
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Post by bookworm412757 on Jan 20, 2005 16:30:36 GMT -5
don`t do it!!!!!!! people joke about some of my guy friends (especially the one with the mullet) and i don`t care
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Post by MusicGoLucky5 on Jan 24, 2005 17:12:33 GMT -5
i no really, it's ur business, n those other freaks can just think wut they think. i mean really...
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Post by shygurl on Jan 30, 2005 13:18:34 GMT -5
shucks, i think i have to. he doesn't hang out with me nemore and we barely talk to each other. keeping a friendship with him is getting very hard, cuz he wants to hang with betty instead.
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Post by MusicGoLucky5 on Jan 30, 2005 18:40:50 GMT -5
hmm...just keep your ground, he probably is facin this *faze* u no. it'll probably wear away eventually. and sooner or later you are probably goin 2 hav 2 tlk 2 him. up and front about how this is really goin and ask!
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